come from people close to us.
A harsh word from a friend,
a small distance from someone we love,
or hurt from family,
these hurt the most.
Strangers do not stay in our heart,
so their actions pass away quickly.
But loved ones stay inside us,
so their words stay longer.
In human life,
happiness and sadness both come from relations.
When expectations are not met,
pain is born.
We expect
love, care, and understanding
from those we are close to.
When this does not happen,
we feel hurt and disappointed.
Many times,
pain is not only from what they do,
but from what we hoped they would do.
People close to us
show our good side and also our weak side.
When they ignore us, criticize us,
or argue with us,
it feels very personal.
That is why it hurts more
because the heart is attached.
Some believe
close relationships carry deep bonds from the past.
And through them, life teaches us lessons.
Not because they want to hurt us,
but because closeness itself
brings both love and challenge.
And sometimes,
the same people who hurt us
also help us grow stronger.
By
Sanji-Paul Arvind
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